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Self Improvement : Inviting Negative Comments (Personal Thread)

Hey everyone,

I’d love to hear your unfiltered thoughts about me—how I come across, and where I could improve. Whether it’s something subtle or something obvious, I’m open to all perspectives.

I know I won’t always match everyone’s expectations, but growth is important, even in a digital space. So, if there’s anything you’ve noticed (bad)—let me know. Feel free to drop a comment here or DM me if that works better for you.

Looking forward to your candid & unfiltered perspectives—no sugarcoating!

Yours (however you see me 😉)
 
My Personal Opinion
I should try to become more of a serious mod and lessen the amount of jokes I poke around unnecessarily!

I disagree a little on this. I lost a bit of funny side of me after becoming a mod (mainly due to dealing with sensitive members). I'd prefer to be natural (that I can't).

The title is bit misleading. Instead of negative, it could have been "constructive". But, everyone will get the point after reading the OP. So, not a big deal.
 
Ha ha ha...
Exam finished?

1. View changes over time. Yours, mine's other's, everyone's.
2. Those find you negetive now, might find u postive later, vice-versa, supercharged.
3. Personal ego will go with ages (Everyone has it).
4. I am happy to learn that u already realised that criticism from a friend doesn't necessarily means that friend becomes ur enemy.
5. I think u have a good taste of recognising good people and bad people.
6. Sometime, you are way ahead of ur time, hence will face more resistance.
7. Confidence good. Overconfidence kills.
8. You are jack of everything, master of something. (Exceptional talent).
9. You know how to impress and express, need to learn a bit how to self control.
10. Always straight to the point.
11. Universal presence in the TF World.
12. U might be a good teacher, manager, engineer or technocrats or enterpreneur but might face difficulty sticking around that. Basically I am asking have u decided...what do you want.
13. To be frank with u having so much discussion (10+ pages in DM). I don't know ur gender PG. Anyways it doesn't matter. Never tried looking at it.
14. Very curious. Sometime look around to find small small undiscovered things, in that process ignore the purpose of searching and sometimes u forget the main point.


Aur v hoga, sobke hote hay. Kuch jyada toh nehi bol diya na! As I am also a human... Mera points galat v ho sakta hay. Perspective badal v sakta hay.
Cheers!
 
I disagree a little on this. I lost a bit of funny side of me after becoming a mod (mainly due to dealing with sensitive members). I'd prefer to be natural (that I can't).

The title is bit misleading. Instead of negative, it could have been "constructive". But, everyone will get the point after reading the OP. So, not a big deal.
Title should be such that people khiche chale aayein 😉
 
I will add to it.
Your profile picture is also bad. We are "men of culture" and we need full package photo.😛
Achiya hamko sikhariya

You may try being more assertive/threatening/harsh? Haven't seen you doing the job of unpaid "moderator".
You don't see mods work
It's in background my dear

Sometimes the harshest and difficult of the things go unseen so that the community thrive peacefully. 🙂
 
Vo I can't change now

I tell you why
Everyone on forum knows me by this name and it has become my symbol, If I change it's randomly people won't be able to tag me for some time, I'll also have to inform mod team and it's all would be a mess.
bro I wish you had replied "Kuchbhi" for my message
 
Ha ha ha...
Exam finished?
Nope going on
CS is left 🙂
Rest done

1. View changes over time. Yours, mine's other's, everyone's.
2. Those find you negetive now, might find u postive later, vice-versa, supercharged.
3. Personal ego will go with ages (Everyone has it).
4. I am happy to learn that u already realised that criticism from a friend doesn't necessarily means that friend becomes ur enemy.
5. I think u have a good taste of recognising good people and bad people.
6. Sometime, you are way ahead of ur time, hence will face more resistance.
7. Confidence good. Overconfidence kills.
8. You are jack of everything, master of something. (Exceptional talent).
9. You know how to impress and express, need to learn a bit how to self control.
10. Always straight to the point.
11. Universal presence in the TF World.
12. U might be a good teacher, manager, engineer or technocrats or enterpreneur but might face difficulty sticking around that. Basically I am asking have u decided...what do you want.
13. To be frank with u having so much discussion (10+ pages in DM). I don't know ur gender PG. Anyways it doesn't matter. Never tried looking at it.
14. Very curious. Sometime look around to find small small undiscovered things, in that process ignore the purpose of searching and sometimes u forget the main point.


Aur v hoga, sobke hote hay. Kuch jyada toh nehi bol diya na! As I am also a human... Mera points galat v ho sakta hay. Perspective badal v sakta hay.
Cheers!

Appreciate your valuable feedback 🙏
 
Hey everyone,

I’d love to hear your unfiltered thoughts about me—how I come across, and where I could improve. Whether it’s something subtle or something obvious, I’m open to all perspectives.

I know I won’t always match everyone’s expectations, but growth is important, even in a digital space. So, if there’s anything you’ve noticed (bad)—let me know. Feel free to drop a comment here or DM me if that works better for you.

Looking forward to your candid & unfiltered perspectives—no sugarcoating!

Yours (however you see me 😉)
Kuch bhi bro...

2 things..

1) I understand you are interested ur late teens.. so you'll not understand this.. With age you'll get to know... That - DONT EVEN WAIT FOR A 3rd PERSONS VALIDATION. This entire post is for validation. Not blaming you bro... Everyone at that age, was into validation. That is accentuated in this digital age by instagram and youtube...

2) You remember our altercation that happened a few months ago.. I really meant a funny joke . You took it serious, and we know where it went.. I just left it, coz you r a kid. However, the reality is that, Jokes MIGHT hurt others. However, Over reaction WILL hurt one for sure.. So RESPOND and NOT REACT..

Now personally, I don't care whether you listen or not. But, eventually, You'll understand this in time..
 
Kuch bhi bro...

2 things..

1) I understand you are interested ur late teens.. so you'll not understand this.. With age you'll get to know... That - DONT EVEN WAIT FOR A 3rd PERSONS VALIDATION. This entire post is for validation. Not blaming you bro... Everyone at that age, was into validation. That is accentuated in this digital age by instagram and youtube...
Got it
After reading this I feel I wanted validation for sure you are correct, I supposs
But more than that I just simply wanted valuable users to point out mistakes I have done and will not repeat them 😉

2) You remember our altercation that happened a few months ago.. I really meant a funny joke . You took it serious, and we know where it went.. I just left it, coz you r a kid. However, the reality is that, Jokes MIGHT hurt others. However, Over reaction WILL hurt one for sure.. So RESPOND and NOT REACT..

Now personally, I don't care whether you listen or not. But, eventually, You'll understand this in time..
Okay I get it
I repeated that only once again and have sought to not do it again 🙂
 
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