Gambling addiction (help)

[Aniket]

@iampqq See, I am not in a condition to write a huge paragraph being ill, though doing so for the shake of your mental health, it's easy to listen but hard to implement:

Let bygones be bygones.

-Firstly enroll yourself in Physical CA Foundation Classes, in this way your good amount of time will get devoted.

- Get into library without any electronic devices, keep it (devices) into locker, you will be forced to study, because of your library environment. Keep these things into ego, that you had failed because of your carelessness and still in Fnd, but your batchmates are in Inter or in Final.

- For the shake of Gambling & Porn Consumption, take an oath in the name of your beloved one; may be your mom or anyone else. Promise yourself you're not going to break it at any cost, because of your habit you will be pushed to break the oath, directed from your mind; then start imagining the situation, how will you face yourself, your families, though acknowledging your wrong doings.

- As suggested by others, handover your money, account credentials to your trusted one.

- You will not have money to gamble, hope you are not going to theif.

- Lock your devices, and handover to fathers. It would have been better if you don't use your mobile for few days, it's hard to do so but you can do it.

- Manifest you're going to leave these all and going to prepare for exams seriously and even passed the exam with flying colours.

Last but not least: this is the time when you should be avoiding to put yourself in depression, everything is all and good. Just forget for now and hustle for today and tomorrow.

Talk with your families, friends, enjoy your group, pass your time with beautiful nature, have some good time, you will get relief from others.

Just think if you are not going to be serious now, your whole life after loosing dependency upon your father will become joke. You need to talk with yourself in peace, ask the question with yourself and be honest. So, do hard work and enjoy your upcoming life nicely or enjoy now and manage your upcoming life hardly. You can also consult with a good counsellor.


Note: Self Control is must. You have to control yourself instead getting into it again by giving lame excuses to yourself.

 

[imdjay]

@iampqq If you are real, the only advice that can work effectively and practically is of @DocFixIt
But I am not sure about talking to yourself.

The most important thing is to keep yourself busy. As your addiction is around the internet. Leave it. Leave this forum, leave FB/Twitter/Instagram. I would say move to a basic mobile phone for some time. Keep yourself busy in the real world. Talk to as many people as you can. Go outside. wonder here and there. Try new things daily. do whatever you like. eat, play, enjoy. but all offline, not on the internet. But first thing first, log out yourself from here and stop the internet.

 

[iampqq]

Talk with your parents.. go To a psychiatrist..

It might feeling you Strange and bad option.
But Trust me no better option than this.
IN my 20s i used bet on cricket and was kucky also.
But somehow my mother got info about this and She just said one thing.
You get addicted it will take everything from you.
If you want something just tell me i will fulfill your needs just stop gambling And find Other goos ways to earn.
Now i am 29 and Earning good income but not from gambling and happy that i lef this habit after doing promise to my mother..

I still saw my frnds doing gambling but they are not happy at all they are in Fear and Greed everytime..

Follow what is say trust me your addiction will be left soon

I am just happy that it was my money
Not from any loan or parents

 

[Cc_creditguy]

At a point like 2 year back i was having this amt and now my online community friends have like 2-3cr and offline classes friends passed ca inter and i did nothing
So this make me more stressed.

Bro there always a big fish around us dont look at it , that will force you to trade with leverage , and you lose again just start today or tomorrow put that amount in FD THATS IT , yea I knew it's a big amount, if you believe in God it's all for good sake , some may thought of suicide, Thankgod your are here , here many financial expert they may guide you. It's all happen becoz of greedy am I ri8 ??

 

[Pankhuri]

I simply don't like closed door physical activity

Sab ko jail ka trauma nahi naseeb hota kaptaan sahib.

 

[iampqq]

@iampqq If you are real, the only advice that can work effectively and practically is of @DocFixIt
But I am not sure about talking to yourself.

The most important thing is to keep yourself busy. As your addiction is around the internet. Leave it. Leave this forum, leave FB/Twitter/Instagram. I would say move to a basic mobile phone for some time. Keep yourself busy in the real world. Talk to as many people as you can. Go outside. wonder here and there. Try new things daily. do whatever you like. eat, play, enjoy. but all offline, not on the internet. But first thing first, log out yourself from here and stop the internet.

Bro I am not here for fun
Let me be clear I am a guy Prash
I was not having much friends so I was enjoying online and I was being abusive which resulted in ban

And after that I was like free so idk how my mind diverted to do gambling again

 

[iampqq]

Bro there always a big fish around us dont look at it , that will force you to trade with leverage , and you lose again just start today or tomorrow put that amount in FD THATS IT , yea I knew it's a big amount, if you believe in God it's all for good sake , some may thought of suicide, Thankgod your are here , here many financial expert they may guide you. It's all happen becoz of greedy am I ri8 ??

Idk how I got greedy
I never spend so much money
Just 4-6k on food
And nothing
I have simple 20-25k phone from 2 years

 

[Cc_creditguy]

Bro unko bataya tho they will blame me more that I was busy doing shit rather that studing and will never trust me

Bro then don't tell your parent if they aren't friendly to you if you're from a rich background then 25l is nothing but if your a middle class talk to your the friends that trust the most tell him I'm stuck may be he can help coz he know more than us

 

[Vasuki]

Bro I am not here for fun
Let me be clear I am a guy Prash
I was not having much friends so I was enjoying online and I was being abusive which resulted in ban

And after that I was like free so idk how my mind diverted to do gambling again

So you saying mods are behind your re- gambling behaviour 🥸
Serious allegations.
I wish Bunny was there to fight

 

[iampqq]

Bro then don't tell your parent if they aren't friendly to you if you're from a rich background then 25l is nothing but if your a middle class talk to your the friends that trust the most tell him I'm stuck may be he can help coz he know more than us

All my 2-3 friends i just meet them once or twice a week
Because they just talk abt movie or girl and nothing else they know
I want friends which have intrest in finance and related to that

 

[iampqq]

So you saying mods are behind your re- gambling behaviour 🥸
Serious allegations.
I wish Bunny was there to fight

I never said that
I said I was free

 

[iampqq]

And I don't go to college to
Just go for exam
Because crowd is worst

 

[Cc_creditguy]

Idk how I got greedy
I never spend so much money
Just 4-6k on food
And nothing
I have simple 20-25k phone from 2 years

So just from a normal family background don't stress too. Much know one even if your close frnd gain 10cr he not going to give 100 rs to you so don't over think its a never ending process I'm sure that you trade in crypto you have some knowledge in investment 1l fd 1l gold purchase for your parents they may feel happy, 1l in investment like a bond that's it

 

[iampqq]

A week ago I also shared img of -11$ somthing

It's just that I am not able to forget that and get out of the cycle

 

[Vasuki]

I never said that
I said I was free

That was banter to mods 🥸 .
Don't take it seriously..
Because I don't take my words seriously 😁

 

[iampqq]

My reason to ask here is
You guys are 25-30+ of age and have a lot of experience so you can guide me

 

[iampqq]

That was banter to mods 🥸 .
Don't take it seriously..
Because I don't take my words seriously 😁

But they do

 

[Cc_creditguy]

Idk how I got greedy
I never spend so much money
Just 4-6k on food
And nothing
I have simple 20-25k phone from 2 years

It's simple coz your look at the other wealth, bro it's even happend to Mee some of my friends trade with 30l 40l but that time I barley had 1l even that I saved from eating less resulted in a bad health, when I stoped that , I knew there some one. Who earns lot , I'm not saying that yout should earn less take calculated risk and then enjoy your life

 

[Vasuki]

It's simple coz your look at the other wealth, bro it's even happend to Mee some of my friends trade with 30l 40l but that time I barley had 1l even that I saved from eating less resulted in a bad health, when I stoped that , I knew there some one. Who earns lot , I'm not saying that yout should earn less take calculated risk and then enjoy your life

Me using 18 k phone from 4 year now 🙃 .
Emotional attachment to phone meme got riyal

 

[Cc_creditguy]

My reason to ask here is
You guys are 25-30+ of age and have a lot of experience so you can guide me

My reason to ask here is
You guys are 25-30+ of age and have a lot of experience so you can guide me

Bro even I'm 22 , I thought I lost a lot of good time but now, some one like me has decided to step forward, so I try my best