Gambling addiction (help)

[Aniket]

My reason to ask here is
You guys are 25-30+ of age

Don't belong to this age group, even younger than you.

and have a lot of experience so you can guide me

Already guided but it seems you're just defending instead acknowledging and working on it. None of us can feed or hypnotize for doing good.

You must control yourself first and implement doing what was suggested and suit for you.

Gambling addiction (help)

@iampqq See, I am not in a condition to write a huge paragraph being ill, though doing so for the shake of your mental health, it's easy to listen but hard to implement: Let bygones be bygones. -Firstly enroll yourself in Physical CA Foundation Classes, in this way your good amount of time...

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[iampqq]

Should I take any fd based cc ? As it will be time taking process to close it.

 

[Aniket]

Should I take any fd based cc ? As it will be time taking process to close it.

Why you need a credit card? We were suggesting to leave everything connected with your problem and but you're asking for Secured Credit Card being in this state.

 

[iampqq]

Should I take any fd based cc ? As it will be time taking process to close it.

Why you need a credit card? We were suggesting to leave everything connected with your problem and but you're asking for Secured Credit Card being in this state.

I will take it and break it

 

[iampqq]

I will take it and break it

I can't do fd on my parents name

So what's the other option to keep funds locked?

 

[iampqq]

And if anyone thinks
I am lying can dm me for proofs

 

[Aniket]

I can't do fd on my parents name

Before carrying out these nuisances, didn't you think about your parents?

So what's the other option to keep funds locked?

Now, I doubt about the sources of your fund whether it's genuine or not.

Invest cautiously in stocks or mutual funds or FD for long term. And forget it for 3-5 years.

 

[Vasuki]

I can't do fd on my parents name

So what's the other option to keep funds locked?

And if anyone thinks
I am lying can dm me for proofs

Take icici bank 1.5 l limit fd .
When u turn 21 u will get similar limit in all banks .

 

[Vasuki]

Before carrying out these nuisances, didn't you think about your parents?

Now, I doubt about the sources of your fund whether it's genuine or not.

Invest cautiously in stocks or mutual funds for long term. And forget it for 3-5 years.

Itna moral nhi jate 🥸 .. chill chill

 

[iampqq]

Before carrying out these nuisances, didn't you think about your parents?

Now, I doubt about the sources of your fund whether it's genuine or not.

Invest cautiously in stocks or mutual funds or FD for long term. And forget it for 3-5 years.

I think tumne padha nhi pura

It was my money , I did took a ruppe from my parents in last 3 years

And you think I robbed money?

 

[iampqq]

Take icici bank 1.5 l limit fd .
When u turn 21 u will get similar limit in all banks .

Muje aur acc nhu khulwana bhai

Suggest me a option where it's not easy to access my money

 

[Aniket]

Itna moral nhi jate 🥸 .. chill chill

Fattering won't work.

 

[Vasuki]

Fattering won't work.
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Don't get emotional .. people learn by themselves.
No matter how much other ppl give you direction until u do the thing nothing is moving.

Else everyone mother give best advice .. did we do exactly what she said no

 

[Aniket]

I think tumne padha nhi pura

Pura padha tabhi toh lamba chauda comment kara jisse help ho sake, mujhe laga crypto ek bahana ho sakta hain...

Mummy ko Jake Sona ka kuch Gift kar do, kya lage ho, bolna Crypto mein earn kiye hain, lekin jada distract ho gaye the and samai ka barbadi kar chuke hain, lekin ab nahi karunga... realisation ho gaya, aacha se padhunga likhunga....ho sake toh papa ko bhi bata dena, lekin lag nahi raha hai ki bata paoge

Kya pata kal ko kuch legally ho jaye? Usually Cyber Bureau wala ⛓️ account freeze kar deta hai...in case of crypto currencies trxn...Shock dene se acha khudse aage se bata do...jada overthinking nahi hoga and saram bhi aayega iske baad jab nahi padhoge and same chiz repeat karoge

Dhang se samjhoge, convinced ho jayega, raha baat trust ka toh, hope dhire dhire build ho jayega... time lagne do kaam hi iss tarah ka kiye ho, maaf kar denge maa/baap, chinta mat karo jada chinta chita saman hota hai

 

[Aniket]

Don't get emotional .. people learn by themselves.
No matter how much other ppl give you direction until u do the thing nothing is moving.

Else everyone mother give best advice .. did we do exactly what she said no

Who's getting emotional? Sweet talk won't help bro. This will induce him to do these all again. People should learn from mistakes, right.

According to you, these all are mistakes?
Great then, I think differently and you shouldn't get offended if my opinion is not fully matching with you.

 

[iampqq]

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Pura padha tabhi toh lamba chauda comment kara jisse help ho sake, mujhe laga crypto ek bahana ho sakta hain...

Mummy ko Jake Sona ka kuch Gift kar do, kya lage ho, bolna Crypto mein earn kiye hain, lekin jada distract ho gaye the and samai ka barbadi kar chuke hain, lekin ab nahi karunga... realisation ho gaya, aacha se padhunga likhunga....ho sake toh papa ko bhi bata dena, lekin lag nahi raha hai ki bata paoge

Kya pata kal ko kuch legally ho jaye? Usually Cyber Bureau wala ⛓️ account freeze kar deta hai...in case of crypto currencies trxn...Shock dene se acha khudse aage se bata do...jada overthinking nahi hoga and saram bhi aayega iske baad jab nahi padhoge and same chiz repeat karoge

Dhang se samjhoge, convinced ho jayega, raha baat trust ka toh, hope dhire dhire build ho jayega... time lagne do kaam hi iss tarah ka kiye ho, maaf kar denge maa/baap, chinta mat karo jada chinta chita saman hota hai

Last comment!🙂

No old money hai kuch hoga nahi uska issue nhi hai muje

papa ko nhi bata saktha bhai , muje pata hai kaise h

 

[Aniket]

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No old money hai kuch hoga nahi uska issue nhi hai muje

papa ko nhi bata saktha bhai , muje pata hai kaise h

Mummy ko toh batao at least, bolna mein overthink kar raha hoon, may be dipression mein hi chala jaaon, aap hi mujhe samjh sakte hoon and help kar sakte hoo. Bolna Papa ko mat bata ne ke liye nahi bataye gi... honestly sara kuch layman language mein explain kar dena bro, kuch nahi hoga...and unko bhi promise karna thumra schedule ke bareme ab dhang se padhoge likhoge...sara kuch karoge... Sorry & Promise wholeheartedly bolna...maa hain maan jayega... bro and tumhara 75% or more man bhi halka ho jayega...

 

[iampqq]

Mummy ko toh batao at least, bolna mein overthink kar raha hoon, may be dipression mein hi chala jaaon, aap hi mujhe samjh sakte hoon and help kar sakte hoo. Bolna Papa ko mat bata ne ke liye nahi bataye gi... honestly sara kuch layman language mein explain kar dena bro, kuch nahi hoga...and unko bhi promise karna thumra schedule ke bareme ab dhang se padhoge likhoge...sara kuch karoge... Sorry & Promise wholeheartedly bolna...maa hain maan jayega... bro and tumhara 75% or more man bhi halka ho jayega...

Try karunga kal thanks for advice
Funds ka bhi bata do thoda ki bhul jau paisa

 

[Aniket]

Try karunga kal thanks for advice

Go ahead! And let us know, hoping for the best!

Funds ka bhi bata do thoda ki bhul jau paisa

Mere khayal se bata dena hi theek rahega, atleast ye sab karne ke baad kuch toh acha kiye ho lagega (kamaye ho) ... Mummy ko dedena... saving ke rup me rahega unke pass ya unko jo theek lage...kabhi jarurat padega toh wo use kar legi family ke liye

Other option is gifting jewellery (appreciation hi hoga), but ye sahi bhi ho sakta hai and galat bhi depending upon the circumstance.

Baaki sab problems ke liye ye padh lo, I think tumse chut gaya ya ignore kar diye padhke;


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[gautampai]

I might not be able to give you great suggestions like DocFixit , aniket or SSV have given, but being 23 here's my 2 cents.
I have suffered through social media and porn addiction.
1. Regarding the 3L that you have remaining, put it in some good ELSS mutual fund. That way you will not be able to withdraw for 3Years as it will be locked.
2. Regarding the social media addiction, I had the same addiction couple of years back. What helped me was I changed the mobile icon pack to complete black and white. I had read this research article somewhere that keeping the display colour b&w psychologically affects your mind to develop disinterest in using mobile. It kind of makes you want to use mobile less and less. This helped me reduce mobile usage significantly which in turn reduced my social media consumption.
3. Regarding porn addiction, I am still recovering from this. I did find a community in Reddit ( r/NoFap), this is exclusively for recovering porn/masturbation addicts. Here they discuss their progress , issues they're facing etc. But mind you, Reddit is a hot dumpster a little bit of distraction and you'll find yourself in different community. To stay safe you'll need to make sure that NSFW block filter should always be turned ON. I don't think I would be the best person to give any suggestions on this matter.

Ps- to add one more thing on social media addiction, if you use Instagram a lot , delete the app and use it in chrome browser. The difficulty that you'll have to go through to use it even for 10-20mins, automatically make you not want to go on Instagram. I previously used to watch reals for hours each day , but now even if I use Instagram for 30mins in a complete week that's an achievement.